WHAT IS IT?
Love is omnipresent and timeless. But with Valenties’ Day round the corner, its value becomes all the more pertinent. Its’ expense is evident in the rose sticks becoming two and a half times their actual price. The gift galleries are crowded with youngsters vying to grasp the best gifts for their sweethearts. Numerous teenagers wait for the day to express their feelings of love to the ones who attract them.
Ah what a great deal of hallo boo this four letter word creates! But what is it? I mean what is love? Well, as far as I remember, it is the zero score in tennis. And an old archaic name for tomato. And it was also the name of one of the twin sons of Bhagwaan Rama.
Our dictionaries define the term in a scientific manner. As per Encyclopedia Britannica, love is an unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another: as (1) the fatherly concern of God for humankind (2) brotherly concern for others or it is a person's adoration of God. What?? Why give it so much of a spiritual angle, our Cupid struck youngsters would argue. However, even they would agree that this feeling is too wide to be restricted to any one relationship. We admire nature, adore our parents and teachers, are bonded to our siblings, feel an affinity towards our peers and friends, are attached to our pets, house, bike, car and even our clothes and jewellery. Do I dare call these feelings love? I think I can.
So that proves it, love is omnipresent and always in the air irrespective of what day of the year it is. Hey but let me warn you at this. Excess of everything is bad applies here too. Psychologists term abnormal love of a son to his mother as Electra Complex and that of a daughter towards her father as Oedipus Complex. Moreover if you are a teenage collegiate, inappropriate expression of the feeling can even result in distortion of the face and falling of the teeth.
Even after so much of deliberation over its meaning, I am still confused about it. The zero tennis score or the old tomato or the valentine day special attraction…..what is it? What is it?